For Working Mothers
The mental load never stops.
Neither do you.
Let's change that.
The mental load doesn't announce itself. It just grows — until there's no room left for you. No space to stop, breathe, or remember who you are outside of it all. Momtoring is that space. Where the noise gets quiet, and you start living like the author of your own life.
"The dream isn't having it all. It's a moment of stillness."
From a Working MomYou Are Not Alone In This
This isn't a mindset problem.
It's real weight.
We want you to know that what you're feeling is real, it's shared, and it has a name. So we asked working mothers — just like you — what they were most tired of carrying alone. See if any of this sounds familiar.
"The mental load — doctor visits, school spirit, holiday gifts, clothing sizes, stocking the house for everyone. It's tiring to always be 'on'."
"My kids never feeling the impact of me working — feeling left out, forgotten, or deprioritized — while also being in a career I enjoy and feel valued in."
"Someone who is able to be less stressed and frazzled — not rushing to the next activity or losing patience."
The Shift
From managing your life to authoring it.
The noise isn't just exhausting. It's been drowning out your own voice for so long you may have forgotten it was ever there. Momtoring creates the space to hear it again.
Happy woman. Happy wife. Happy mom.
In that order. Guilt aside.
Meet Andi
She's not here to tell you to do more.
She did it herself.
ICF-certified coach with 2,000+ hours of experience. Working mother. The woman who figured out the hard way that "balance" was never the right word for it.
I spent years as a marketing leader at P&G and PayPal — building brands, leading teams, and doing what high-performing women do: making it look manageable. On the outside, it was. On the inside, I was disappearing inside my own life.
What changed wasn't a system. It was the moment I stopped running scripts that were never mine and started asking what I actually valued. That shift — from managing a life to authoring one — is what I now help other women make.
Work With Me
Four ways in. One direction.
Whether you're just returning to work or ready to redesign everything — there's a place for you here.
The First 90 Days
Just back at work after maternity leave?
A self-paced recorded workshop + worksheet to help you navigate the return with clarity, before the overwhelm sets in. Do it in your own time. Keep it forever.
The Edit
Quarterly evenings for working mothers
90 minutes of real talk and one practical tool. In-person in Hoboken + online stream. Each edition tackles one thing that's weighing you down, and gives you something to use the next morning.
The Unload Circle
From carrying everything to building something shared
8 weeks. Weekly group sessions with peer accountability. The work of truly lightening the load — emotionally, practically, and in your relationships. Because you've already tried doing it alone.
The Deep Edit
For women done losing themselves in their roles
Intensive 1:1 coaching with Andi. For the woman who has been so deep in the doing, in the roles, the responsibilities and the relentless forward motion, that she's lost the thread back to herself. Three months to stop, reflect, and realign.
Listen
The podcast for women
who are done carrying it alone.
The morning I cried in my car
The moment I stopped performing and started feeling — and what it taught me about what it really means to show up for your kids.
Listen now →The voice that says it's never enough
Where that voice came from, why it followed me out of corporate America, and how naming it was the first step to stopping it from writing my story.
Listen now →The day my VP called me mediocre
I had just stopped working weekends. Then came the meeting. This is about what I decided — quietly, on the drive home — about whose definition of success I was going to live by.
Listen now →Her Story
The shift is real.
Here's what it looks like.
Not quotes. Stories. Real women, in their own words, on the other side of the work.
I used to feel like my limitations as a mom, a woman, and a professional were all working against each other. This program helped me stop fighting myself. I finished it feeling capable — not because the challenges disappeared, but because I stopped letting them define what was possible for me.
I realised that I'd drifted so far from my own values that I barely recognised myself in my daily life. This program brought me back. Not to who I was before kids, before work, before all of it — but to who I actually want to be. That distinction changed everything.
By the end I was having conversations with my husband I'd been putting off for years — finally asking for what I actually needed. That's what this program does. It doesn't just give you tools. It gives you the courage to use them.
Your Next Chapter
When your kids look back,
what do you want them to remember?
Not the rushing. Not the distraction. Not someone who had it all managed. Just you — present, happy, and living on your own terms. A 30-minute conversation. No pressure, no pitch. Just a chance to think out loud about where you are and what you actually need.